With my youngest children entering teen years, I recently joined a dating site. Typical kind of thing, a series of questions to answer to help potential suitors tune into your world and see if you are possibly “the one” or a close enough approximation.
However, many of the answers didn’t really give me enough of a clue. For example, under the question “What makes you laugh?” many people had written “Jokes” or “Funny stuff”. And under the question, “What do you like doing?” some had put “Having fun.” Or “Having a laugh”. Continue reading Pushing Magic Buttons
How are your vibrations?
Sound like a hippy, lefty, tree-hugging, unscientific sort of question, even though I didn’t add “baby” or “dude” at the end?
I wonder, though, which vibrations you like best. I’m willing to bet that when you are cold, you quite like vibrations that heat you coming from a radiator or fire, almost as much as you like those sunlight vibrations on your skin in the summer time, making you smile your sunniest smile. And quite possibly you find that when your favourite musical vibrations come on the radio or the DJs record decks, you discover that it can change your mood, your posture, your personal energy levels. Continue reading Good… Good… Good… Good…Vibrations!
Where to start as you redesign the energy weave that creates the illusion of your universe? As you change shapes and meanings and find that your own light and all the other lights strung out perfectly as far as can be seen shine brighter now.
One good place can be in your relationships, your interactions with those others.
Think about the “hook” you are carrying around to find friends and lovers and enemies and all the other characters of your internal, non-existent drama. Think about the invisible “you scratch my back and I will scratch yours” element to your internal model, the “script” (in psychologist jargon) that your unconscious wanted to play out as it fits together with others’ internal models.
“If you do xyz I will know that I can trust you”
“I used to love you but then you did that thing and it meant I couldn’t love you anymore”
“As long as you don’t hurt me I will be your friend”
Continue reading Taking Away The Price Tags in Relationships!
Picture or feel yourself for a moment as standing/sitting/lying in a desert, or less than a desert, an infinite empty space. Now fill that space all around you, as far as the extent of the universe, with a multi-dimensional weave of energy (whatever that looks like to you). There are you, at the centre of the universe, and all around in every direction and dimension is nothing but this weave, like a lapping ocean that goes on forever.
(You just became a quantum physicist! Does that feel good?)
Continue reading Perception is Projection is Creation
Have you ever played a game of Monopoly where you lost concentration for a moment while somebody shook the dice and then it was going to be your go (or someone else’s) but then you FELT something in the air and had a double check and found that that other player had landed on your hotel and you managed to scream “Rent!” before anything else could happen?
Or what about that attractive girl in a bar, and a man approaches, and she knows before he has uttered a syllable that she is not interested. Even if he works out and he dresses ok and is perfectly good-looking and all the other boxes the guy might think he ticked. She knows as surely as you and I know we are going to put the phone down on a cold sales call with just the first intake of breath at the other end.
How does she know? How do we know?
Continue reading Girl meets boy meets girl meets….